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"Spend carefully, don't buy things that you can't
digest, avoid oily stuff and make sure that you are not left hungry".
Those were the words spoken by our father as he gave 50
Paise each, to me and my brother Radhakanth for spending over coffee and snacks
at a make shift canteen at our school, Besant Basic School on MG Road,
Mangalore. That was Tuesday the February 22, and it was the annual
'Vasantotsava' or Spring Festival of 1966 celebrated in the school. Variety
entertainment and the food stall made it more attractive than school day. We
never missed that day for the initial five years we spent in that school.
As we walked up the MG Road passing by the green paddy fields
on either side, Radhakanth said "They must be having quite a few food
items there. I would prefer to eat some halwa, some snack and have lemon juice.
What is your idea?"
I was not sure myself. I told him that I shall decide after
seeing the canteen.
We reached school little after 5:45PM and the entertainments
were to begin at 6:00. I met my classmates Naveen Kini, Prasad Basri, Ravi
Kumar, Sathish Kodialbail and Aravind Thodar. Radhakanth was looking here and
there, and before I could turn around, he had disappeared and next I saw him in
the make shift canteen set up in 5th Standard class room, sitting on a bench
and eating something! He waved at me and signalled me to join him. I nodded my
head and showed him my tummy, meaning I am full and I may eat something later!
Radhakanth came out of the canteen, joined use and told me, "They have
nice Wheat Halwa, Avalakki, Ambade, Sajjige, Sheera, Holige, Tukudi, Sherbat and
coffee. I ate halwa, holige and drank sherbat. You can also do that. Each item
costs 15 Paise. I still have 5 Paise left and I can use it for something tomorrow."
I was still not tempted to eat anything. Besides, couple of
other classmates didn't have any pocket money with them. So, I didn't feel like
depriving them!
Then the show began, some entertainment programme went on
until 9:00PM. I was eyeing the other students entering and hogging at the
canteen lit by petromax light but I could not make up my mind about spending
the 50 Paise for anything at the canteen. After two or three rounds on the school ground peeping
into the canteen to see the activities there, at 8:30PM they closed the canteen and I
sighed with disappointment, that I could not have anything there! The
description of the halwa, holige and sherbat made me drool, for I was feeling
hungry already! Radhakanth was with Mahaveer and other friends; I was with
Naveen, Prasad and Ravi when we returned home.
As we approached Ballal Bagh and crossed Narayana Shetty's shop Lalbagh Stores,
I saw 'Baayi's Shop' still open. It was almost 9:15PM then.
I asked Naveen "What can I take home with this 50 Paisa
I have in my pocket?"
Naveen's eyes brightened, and he said, "Hey buy
nelakadale..... peanuts. Baayi sells whole peanuts with shell for 50 Paise a
Ser. All at home will be happy that you have brought peanuts, much more than
anyone can even imagine! Your parents will feel proud, that you didn't spend
the money for yourself, but you shared peanuts with them!"
Prasad and Ravi also nodded
in approval, and I didn't hesitate to climb the three steps into Baayi's shop
and ask for one ser peanuts! Baayi's eyes became as big as a car's headlight,
and she seemed to be shocked! I repeated what I asked for, and showed her the
Fifty Paise coin with a broad smile. She packed the peanuts in a large paper
cone and handed it over to me.
I came home running with the pack, dashed straight into the hall into the dining section and handed over the pack to my mother. My three brothers who were having dinner were surprised to see that, and they exchanged gestures within themselves. Radhakanth was sitting beside my father who was relaxing at the other end of the hall smoking cigarette and reading English newspaper.
I came home running with the pack, dashed straight into the hall into the dining section and handed over the pack to my mother. My three brothers who were having dinner were surprised to see that, and they exchanged gestures within themselves. Radhakanth was sitting beside my father who was relaxing at the other end of the hall smoking cigarette and reading English newspaper.
Mother was aghast when she saw the pack, and she asked me
what it was. I jubilantly replied "Nelakadale. I got it from Baayi's shop.
She gave one Ser for 50 Paise. We all can eat as much as we want!"
Mother announced to father "Look here I say! He has
brought one ser peanuts instead of having snacks and coffee at school!"
Father kept his paper aside, stubbed the cigarette in ash
tray, lifted his head and stared at me. Then he shouted "Are you crazy? I
gave you money and told you to spend it carefully on snacks and drink at the
school canteen and you brought peanuts? Learn something from your brother
Radhakanth! He spent 45 Paise for snacks and a drink and also returned 5 Paise.
Now go to Baayi's shop immediately and return the peanuts. Otherwise you are
not allowed to enter the house!"
Radhakanth was making faces at me and smiling triumphantly!
I pleaded; I cried and tried all that I could, to convince
my parents. When they didn’t respond favourably, I went out with the conical
paper pack containing the peanuts, sat near the gate on the cement platform and
started to sob. Across the MG Road
in a distance, I could see Baayi just closing her shop. Nemanna appeared from
nowhere, he was nearing me with unsteady steps.
Nemanna(Konde Nemiraj Shetty) was an eternal bachelor, a
senior person related to our neighbours, staying in the outhouse behind our
home. He had the habit of getting loaded with hooch daily and come home in an
inebriated state.
He neared me, sat by my side and whispered with a strong breath that smelled like sapodilla fruit, "Appu…. Rajani.... why are you sitting here at late hours? Did you do anything wrong for which you are punished? Tell me what happened!"
He neared me, sat by my side and whispered with a strong breath that smelled like sapodilla fruit, "Appu…. Rajani.... why are you sitting here at late hours? Did you do anything wrong for which you are punished? Tell me what happened!"
I cried aloud and told him everything. He consoled me, held
my hand and led me back to our main door. He knocked on the door and called for
my father. Father appeared and asked Nemanna, "Why Nemanna? What
happened?"
Nemanna was indignant, as he put me in front of him,
"Kudpi sir, you did not do the right thing. I respect you for your age,
wisdom and abilities. Sending this innocent boy out of home for none of his
mistakes is wrong. I won't support that. He brought one Ser peanuts with a good
intention of sharing them with all at home, suppressing his wants, his hunger.
Please think about his sacrifice and don't punish the poor child. How can he
return the peanuts at this hour when Baayi has closed her shop! He will return
it tomorrow morning. Right Appu?"
I nodded while sniffs, tears and hiccups appeared then and
now, the after effects of crying and feeling helpless!
Father looked at me and said "Nemanna, do you think I
am cruel enough to punish my child? I just wanted to teach him the value of
money and discipline in life. Had you not brought him in, I'd have done that
myself after a few minutes. Anyway, forget the whole episode. We shall consume
the peanuts tomorrow as punishment to this boy! Rajani my dear son, keep in
mind that this is the last time you did mistake like this. You should not take
liberties like this and buy just about anything out of your pocket money. You
are too small to decide what you want. Your friends are not mature enough to
guide you. Always obey your parents and be responsible in life. Now go inside,
wash your hands, feet and face, change your clothes. Your amma is waiting to
serve you dinner"
I did not fail to notice Nemanna and my father wink at one
another and smile! I also could not understand why Radhakanth who spent his
pocket money for himself was right, and I who brought a heap of peanuts for the
entire family to enjoy, was wrong!
5 comments:
What a wonderful write up. You remembered every details of those yester years.....a very strong memory. I wish your father had explained what was wrong with your decision. May be he wanted you to enjoy with that money. Enjoyed rwading this. Because of my hobby (birding) which takes a lot of my time, I am unable to pursue my reading habit. Will reading other episodes soon. You indeed have a flair for writing Raj.
Thank you Vivek.
You always encouraged budding writers like me, in spite of your hectic schedule. Hope to get more feedback from you. As for my memory, I must thank my parents from whom I inherited the genes. Nothing special as an individual.
- Rajanikanth
Vivek, I think my father was against the idea of me taking the advice of my friends and going for those peanuts. At that age of ours, we were not supposed to make decisions on buying or selling like I did, going by my classmates' advice rather than following my parents. In present times it would be deemed as a great act of sacrifice or selflessness!
In any case it was not my decision! I followed the advice of my friends and thus defied my parents!
He explained that in simple words. He had even cautioned us about spending the money on food that was not good for health. Eating peanuts in excess was also believed to induce 'Pittha' or acidity. If you remember those times, it was very much relevant, but I was naive enough to commit that mistake.
My father was a great visionary who had forethought and he had the ability to have a quick look at things in multiple angles before coming to a conclusion.
- Rajanikanth
Dear Raj, I read, with great interest, your short story on the purchase of the peanuts. Although this is now, an old posting, please permit me to add some of my personal thoughts on this thread (matter). I assume this took place in the late 1960's, because (naya) paise were introduced in 1958 -and only became prevalent (popular) in 1961-62 onwards. It was a period of relatively lower inflation, and 50 p., at the time, was still worth something - something more like 75 or a 100 INR rupees today ....
I am also appreciative of the fact that you held, and still now, you hold, your father in such high regard. Many people might disagree with you, in that belief. Those days, were a time when most people were relatively poor, when joint families were an urgent necessity, primarily because of economic insecurity, and high family mortality ..... and parents, especially fathers were the absolute and indisputable rulers and infallible law givers of the household. As they say, in hindi, 'Wo bhi ek daur thaa' - that time, that period, was also a singular era, a unique generation and a rare zamana .... that has, since, passed away amd will never occur again.
To cut to the point, your selflessness and altruism, in buying the peanuts, for the entire family, would be much treasured and eulogized today .... when all people(s), especially children grow up, to think as individuals and with a far more selfish outlook. Your maturity and precocious behavior, at such a young age would be vaulted and spoken about .... maybe even boasted about by your family.
I live in the USA and my kids would most likely act in their own self interest, and the father or even the mother are held to much more critical standards .... and are never considered infallible. But then, that, I guess, is progress.
By the way, I was led to your website, when I googled the word, "gajbaje' " . Your website had a recipe for it. I am a male, over 65, semi-retired, and love to cook. I am a konkani, but not a GSB, have been to Mangalore (Kodial) about 5 times, have lived in the US for 40 years. Recently, on July 1, 2016, I attended the 2016 Konkani Sammelan festival, in Atlanta, Georgia USA .... and the name of their massive souvenir anthology catalog was ... Gajbaje !
Respectful greetings and best wishes for the future.
Dear Vidwanji,
First of all, let me apologise for the delay in replying your comment. I was little under the weather and just saw what you had posted.
I fully agree with whatever you have expressed. The year was 1966, and I added it now. Somehow had left out the year due to some confusion.
Nice to read about 'Gajbaje' and about your family in short. Please do contact me/meet me personally if you happen to visit India sooner.
Thank you.
Greetings and regards,
Kudpi Raj
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